When I first heard the title of this book, I literally groaned. Another one of those books from my parents that dead set against dating. And without dating, how was I EVER going to get married? You know, married, as in finding a husband, living happily ever after? So the book sat on my bookshelf for a while collecting dust while I attempted to gain the courage to read what I thought was going to be another "thou shalt" and "thou shalt nots" book. It probably still would be sitting there if a few dear friends of mine didn't ask me to do a book study with them. So I read it. Once. It wasn't bad. Really it wasn't. This guy actually kinda had a clue as to what he was talking about. It wasn't until I started having young men seeking me out and me actually thinking about dating that I really found the truth in this book. It taught me about commitment and dedication to a relationship and about the feelings of others. I very highly recommended it!